Our last full week in the mission field!
Monday morning, Pam and left early this morning to pick up
Sisters Weyland and Morse at Sister Morse’s apartment and take them to the
Mission Office for their release activities with the Mission President. The
Elders staying with us also had to be at those morning activities. Each of the
Sisters had 2 huge pieces of luggage so we could see why they couldn’t get them
in their little car. It was a tearful farewell for Sister Oakes and Hall but
after hugs and pictures we loaded up and headed to the Mission Office which was
full of Elders and some Sisters waiting for their activity today. 36
missionaries were going home on Tuesday—a huge group and would greatly impact
the mission in terms of areas being closed down or numbers of companionship's
changed. In the Jax East Zone, Jax Beach would lose the Sisters and Fort
Caroline the Elders—change was inevitable. Back at our apartment we decided to
go out to the Naval Station and do some visiting. We first stopped at the
Lagae’s and Jerald was home and we had a nice visit with the family. Jerald
hoped to have his interview with President Button this week. They really hoped
they could both go to the Temple this coming Saturday (27th of
July). That would be fantastic. After spending time with them we drove to the
Clinic to see if Alexis Connelly was working and she was. We gave her a wedding
present, and she was very appreciative and came out into the waiting area and
visited with us. We congratulated her on her wedding, and she told us how it
all happened, and we wished her well and hoped she and Charles could be
co-located soon. Later in the morning Alexis texted us the following: “Just
wanted to say thank you again for the gift, and apologize for not being around
for the past few months. I didn’t want to disappoint you with not going to
church. I hope you have a safe trip home.” We were so happy we made this
connection again and hoped the best for her. Later in the afternoon we returned
to the USO and the place was hopping with military families attending the No
Dough Dinner. We walked in and greeted many of the volunteers and went to the
office and visited with James McCullough who was the night manager. He was
happy to see us and said some nice things about our contribution to the center.
Joyce Schellhorn (Director) was back and we visited with her and she seemed
pleased with the turnout and the meal itself. After visiting and taking some
pictures we left. At 9:30 pm, the Elder’s returned for the night and we had
Elder Hibbert, Robinson, Tuckett and also Elder’s Rice and C. Smart. So, we had
a full house.
Tuesday morning, the Elders were up
at 5:00 am and the bathroom was going strong for about an hour and then they
left at 6:30 am to drive to the Mission Office and eventually the airport and
home. After they left, we cleaned up the kitchen and Pam and I stripped parts
of the bunk beds as only 1 of the beds had been slept in. The other 3 just
slept on top of the bed with their own bedding. We got laundry going and
cleaned up the bathroom and had a bag of hair products that the Elders had left
and threw them away. By 9:00 am we were back to normal and did some studying
and preparing for our day. At 10:30 am we drove to the Dunn Avenue Social
Security Office, next to the Dunn Avenue chapel, and got our addresses changed
on our accounts. That took over an hour as the waiting room was quite full of patrons.
From there we returned to the Arlington area and had a late lunch and a quick
stop at Wal-Mart for some cake ingredients and back to our apartment. Pam
prepared dinner and at 5:00 pm Elders Young and Stevens joined us for a
wonderful meal. Elder Young was from Blackfoot, Idaho and Elder Stevens from
Ephraim, Utah and was in President Troy Birch’s stake. They were Zone Leaders
in the Jacksonville East Zone and great Elder’s. Throughout the afternoon
Samantha Lagae began texting us about plans for the Temple this week. First,
she was looking at Saturday for her and then it changed to both her and Jerald
for Saturday, but the last session for Saturday was at 1:30 pm and they weren’t
sure we could be there early enough as Jerald couldn’t get off the ship until
9:00 am. Later on, the discussion changed to Thursday for Samantha and Saturday
for Jerald and eventually changed to Thursday for both of them if they could
get child-care. When Sam called the Temple, they told her they should bring
their children as they had good child-care in the Temple and do the endowment
and sealings all on Thursday. We were all for that and so were the Lagae’s. The
question mark was Jerald’s final interview with a member of the Stake
Presidency. Between Samantha and me, we must have called or texted Brother
Queen (executive secretary) a dozen times pleading with him for an appointment.
He had to talk with President Heywood, who was in California, to eventually
approve President Bridegan to conduct the interview. An appointment was made
for Wednesday evening and we got that final word about 10:00 pm—the answer to
endless prayers. Samantha had made an appointment for Thursday and with God’s
blessing they would be an endowed and sealed family by Thursday evening.
Wednesday morning was Pioneer day
in Utah and Erin and the children and Sarah & Andrew, and their family were
at our home in Monroe enjoying the festivities. We made reservations for a boat
ride with Amelia Island Tours out of Fernandina Beach this morning and drove to
Fernandina Beach, arriving about 9:40 am. Unfortunately, it looked like rain
all morning, but when I checked in at the office, they said the boat was going,
so we got in line and boarded the boat and joined another 40 or 50 people on
the tour. The route took us along the historic Fernandina town area and then
across an opening to Cumberland Island and the majority of the tour was along
Cumberland Island which was about 18 miles long. We had one period of heavy
rain, so all the curtains were dropped, but other than that it was a nice day
and we enjoyed the ride and especially the information given by the announcer.
He was very knowledgeable about the area and the island and seemed to have
intimate knowledge of the Rockefellers, Carnegies and other rich people who
owned sections of the island. Historically, Cumberland Island was in private
hands, but large areas were deeded to the National Parks Foundation by members
or heirs of the Carnegie family in 1971. Other lands in private ownership were
purchased with funds provided by the Mellon Foundation and Congress, and in
1972 Cumberland Island was designated a national seashore. A small number of private
property owners preserved the island and protected it from massive commercial
development, and still owned homes on the southern, western and northern
regions of the island. Visiting the island was restricted to 300 people per day
and the waiting list was long. We also saw the Kings Bay Subbase from the ocean
side and the narrator gave quite a bit of information about the subs that
operated from there. After two hours we turned around and returned to
Fernandina Beach with a little more speed and talked individually with the
narrator and the captain of the boat and they were very interesting characters.
The entire tour was delightful. After exiting the boat, we drove around the
historical part of Fernandina Beach and saw some of the old mansions the
narrator mentioned. We retraced our route through Amelia Island and took the
ferry back across the St. John’s river to Mayport and had some lunch and then
returned to our apartment. Later in the evening Jerald had his interview with
President Bridegan and it went well, and we were set to go to the Temple
Thursday. Samantha gave me her user ID and Password to family search, and I
updated their family and printed off a Family Group Sheet so they could be
sealed. We were going to meet them at the Temple and couldn’t wait!
Thursday morning, we awoke early
this momentous day. We left for Orlando at 8:30 am and met the Lagae’s at the
distribution center when garments were purchased and then we entered the Temple.
Ordinance workers were waiting for us and we had recommends checked and then
the children were whisked away to the nursery and turned over to some wonderful
ladies who entertained them for the next 3 hours. Pam and I were escorts, and
stayed with Jerald and Samantha through the records check, dressing,
initatories, visits with the Temple President and Matron and then into an
ordinance room for the Endowment. Jerald and Samantha seemed to enjoy
everything and did very well and looked beautiful all dressed in white. Jerald
and I and Pam and Samantha were first at the veil and as Pam and I sat in the
Celestial room we shared impressions on how things went for Jerald and Samantha
and when they joined us were all smiles and thoroughly pleased. We reviewed the
covenants made and answered questions. Jerald and Samantha were returned to the
veil and a short veil service was performed and Jerald was given the
opportunity to bring Samantha through the veil and learn her name. Next all
four of us were escorted to the large sealing room where the missionaries
always met during our Temple visits. I sat as one of the witness and Pam sat
near me and Jerald and Samantha sat in the couple’s seat. Brother Joel Warner,
a sealer, visited with us for a while and then instructed Jerald to bring
Samantha to the altar and he kneeled on the opposite side. Following a little
more instruction and counsel, he performed the sealing ordinance. It was the first
time Pam and I had heard the words since the chances to the endowment occurred
at the first of the year and the sealing ordinance had changed significantly
also and was very nice. After the blessings were pronounced, they kissed across
the altar and it was done. They returned to the couple’s seat and then Brother
Warner explained the next phase when the children would be brought in. Jerald
and Samantha were placed at the ends of the altar and Eleanor, Fiona and Clive
came in all dressed in white and looked so beautiful. Mom and Dad held hands
and each of the children’s hands were placed on Mom and Dad’s and then the
three children were sealed to their parents. It was a most beautiful and
humbling experience for Pam and I. Eleanor, Fiona and Clive did just fine. The
Lagae family were sealed as an eternal family and the looks on their faces was
priceless. Brother Warner was also the Patriarch of the Jacksonville East Stake
and Jerald and Samantha had made appointments with him for their blessings in
the future, so that was nice to meet him. After the family all stood and looked
into the infinity mirrors, we were escorted back downstairs. The adults changed
shoes and we went outside and took some pictures in white and then returned to
the Temple and changed into street clothes. It had been a long day, but they did
so well and were so happy with this step they had taken.
Who would have thought 18 months
ago this day would have occurred? Certainly, Pam and I hoped for such an
outcome, but honestly never seriously considered they would be so invested and
prepared for this day when we first met them. The changes they made regarding
their attitudes and living the commandments were made easily and without rancor
or complaint. Once a decision was made it happened and we could see their
countenances and understanding change and mature as new concepts and ideas were
presented. Even the children changed as their attendance at church became more
consistent. They were more reverent during sacrament meetings and loved their
primary classes. The Gospel really changed lives! Many small miracles occurred
along the way as Jerald’s schedule seemed to doom any chance for these
ordinances to occur as they did. We fully expected to attend Samantha’s
endowment, and later on Jerald would go and then the children would be taken
for the sealing ordinance, but we were so grateful for a Temple worker who counseled
Samantha that they should all come together and do everything at once.
Schedules and time opened up, Jerald received his priesthood interview when his
ship miraculously came into port unexpectedly and later the ordination took
place while home for a weekend with the necessary name presentation and
sustaining. Then the challenge of getting the recommend interviews made it look
like it wouldn’t happen easily as first President Heywood was gone for the
entire month of July and then President Button left also on vacation—but it did
as prayers were proffered, calls made and permissions give for President
Bidgegan to do the final interview last evening. We were so very grateful to
have witnessed this day and to have been a part of the Lagae family legacy as
they moved forward on the covenant path—never doubting, just moving forward in
Faith!
Friday morning, we were lazy today
and that was exacerbated by the fact we had no water for about 3 hours. Didn’t know
what happened but a major break in the apartment complex required a shutdown.
We did some cleaning and organizing and eventually left the apartment at noon
and drove to Costco to change our phones from T-Mobile back to Verizon. It took
a while because we couldn’t remember a “pin” number we had used to create our
T-Mobile account, but finally got that taken care of and eventually were able
to finish the transition. We had some lunch and then returned to the apartment
and did more cleaning, organizing and napping. In the evening we returned to
the Beach and a dinner invitation at the Jarvis’. Elder Murri and Elder Bair, a
new Elder, were there for dinner also and it was nice to meet Elder Bair who
was from Rexburg, Idaho. Elder Murri would be an outstanding trainer. They were
the only companionship in Jacksonville Beach as the Sisters were taken out of
the area when Sister Weyland went home. Actually, the Arlington/Fort
Caroline/Jacksonville Beach districts were down to 4 companionship's. We had a
nice dinner and enjoyed an hour with the Elder’s and then they left for an
appointment. We stayed a little longer and Stephanie and Lance presented us
with a cutting board Lance had made from a variety of wood, and it was
beautiful. He still had a little work to do, so we didn’t take it with us, but
the woodwork was gorgeous.
Saturday morning, we spent getting
ready for our move—a little packing, a little cleaning and planning for next
week. We had been invited to attend a gathering of senior couples in
Gainesville today, so at 11:00 pm we left our apartment and began the journey
to Gainesville which took about 90 minutes. We located the gathering spot, the
Hippodrome Theater in old downtown Gainesville, The Hippodrome Theatre building
was constructed in 1911 and was a Post Office and Courthouse before being
converted to a theater in 1973. The interior was in good condition, maintaining
much of the original walls, doors and beams from its post office and courthouse
era. It had a 268-seat stage main stage theater on the second floor and 80-seat
cinema space on the first floor and was about a half a mile from the UF campus.
We met the Barbers on the front steps and visited with them until other couples
arrived—the Alexanders, Whitakers, Barbers, Goochs, President & Sister Wood
and ourselves. In the movie theater we saw a recently released movie titled “Amazing
Grace.” The film was shot in 1972 at the New Bethel Baptist Church in Watts,
Los Angeles. Aretha Franklin was there and joined Reverend James Cleveland and
the Southern California Community Choir in a two-night concert filmed by a
dozen independent hand-held cameras without any plan or outline. Consequently,
the soundtrack of the film and the film was very difficult to sync, and the
film lay on shelves for some 40 years. Finally, an enterprising man put
together about 2 hours of footage and the movie was released in 2018 following
Aretha Franklin’s death. It was a documentary of her Gospel roots, with little
talking, mostly just music with the Choir and Cleveland. I think we enjoyed watching
the reactions of the mostly black congregation in the film responding to the
music and Aretha’s amazing vocal range and talent, but I hesitate to say
whether it was “good” or “bad” definitely a treasured documentary. Following
the movie, we all drove to the Whitakers home about 8 miles SW of Gainesville
in a very nice housing complex. Brother Whitaker had ordered sandwiches and for
another hour we ate and visited, and it was very nice. We sat with the Barbers
and the Woods and it was interesting to hear about the Wood’s first month in
the mission. Finally, Sister Alexander brought us together and invited each
couple to describe what they were doing as missionaries and that was enjoyable
with a lot of give and take of ideas and concerns. We felt like this type of
meeting would be very productive and enjoyable in the future and they planned
to continue every transfer (every 6 weeks) rotating between different
locations. We were missing about half of the senior couples and hopefully that
would change as the gathering became more common. We thanked the Whitaker’s for
hosting this first meeting and said goodbye to everyone as we would probably
not see any of them again in Florida and left for our home in Jacksonville.
Sunday morning, we left for
Jacksonville Beach at 9:30 am and enjoyed visiting with the saints and also a
wonderful sacrament meeting where the Currie family were invited to speak prior
to their leaving for South Carolina following Bishop’s retirement from the
Navy. A wonderful family that would be missed in the ward. We were joined by
the Lagae’s, Jarvis’ and Noblit families and the Lagae’s were smiling and happy
with all that transpired last Thursday. I briefed the Bishop on the Temple activities
and he was very pleased. Jerald was given an opportunity in Elder’s quorum to
stand and tell about the trip to the Temple and he expressed himself
beautifully. Following the block, a “linger Longer” was held to honor the
Currie’s and I believe the entire ward was there with food galore and a lot of
visiting and picture taking. Pam and I had a nice visit with the Currie’s. Back
home we settled in for the afternoon and did some studying in “Come Follow Me”
and also reviewed a few older lessons that we had missed. At 5:00 pm we drove
to the Naval Station for dinner with the Lagae’s. When we arrived, the Perry’s,
Jarvis’, and Wes Alexander and Kyler were there and that was all a surprise. We
had a nice dinner (potluck) and great visits with everyone and finally picture
taking and lots of hugs. Tara Alexander was sick as was Trista or they would
have been there. The kids played well with each other and the food was
delicious. Tuttle’s were out of town as were Jenny Black and Olivia, but we
would stop by another day to say goodbye to them and the Head’s. We received a
call from Sister Kelley this afternoon. They were in Topeka, Kansas and their
truck had broken down and they thought it was a water pump. So, until they get
that fixed, they were stuck.
Plaque presented to us from the USO
Sister Morse & Weyland (1st & 3rd from Left) going home
On a boat tour from Amelia Island
Tour boat from Amelia Island
Captain Dave at the helm
One of the homes on Cumberland Island constructed by the Carnegie family
Wild horses on Cumberland Island
Lagae family following sealing in the Orlando Temple
Lagae family following sealing in the Orlando Temple
Fiona & Clive enjoying the flowers and the fountain
Samantha, Eleanor and Pam leaving the temple
Dinner at Cafe Rio